Thursday, September 27, 2007

Take Five. . . .


Marriage is sometimes tedious with it's constant responsibilities and every day schedules; and at times it gets a little overwhelming.
That's why in today's segment we will try to lighten that burden a little with a suggestion of "Take Five".
Take five, derives from an old expression which actually means to relax or take a break from the everyday rat race.
Even after six days of miraculous creation, the Lord took a rest. Genesis 2:2 And on the seventh day God ended his work which he had made; and he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had made.
What's important here is that sometimes you need balance in your life and especially in your marriage relationships. With the day to day responsibilities of homes, children, work, church, and all of the other outside activities you include in you life styles, you still need to "take five".
King Solomon puts it this way: Ecclesiastes 2:24 There is nothing better for a man, than that he should eat and drink, and that he should make his soul enjoy good in his labour. This also I saw, that it was from the hand of God; while Paul in the book of Romans explains it this way: Romans 14:22 Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth.
In other words, it's alright to "take five", or take some time for your self. You need a break!
Now of course here's the key for the marriages. Whatever you decide or whenever you have decided to "take five", Take it together! How very important that is.
Finding that enjoyable moment together is the mystery of "oneness" and it is the bond that keeps your marriage relationships healthy. The relief of taking five is many times the solution to depression, anxiety, boredom, and many other negative moods that can cause friction and discontent in a marriage relationship.
Don't allow religious fanatics to tell you that you can't have fun. It's not scriptural and God never said it. Examine the scriptures for your self, and you'll find that it is God's will for you to be happy, healthy, provided for, and to prosper.
3 John 1:2 Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.
Having a little fun does not take away from your relationship with God! It helps to give you a clear and sober mindset to understand the balance of life, both in heaven and on earth.
So when you're feeling a little pressured, maybe it's time to "take five". Your marriage will sparkle!
God Bless you and keep you today, and as always. . . . . remember:
You are Blessed!

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