Tuesday, August 14, 2007

It takes Two. . . .


In today's segment, we address the participation of two in a marriage.

Typically, when married couples are beginning their journey through marriage, they at first want to do everything together, or perhaps it may just seem that way. Nevertheless, the successful workmanship of that couple, builds their own little empire together. It's kind of a team working as one entity. Get my drift?

In every instance, two is better that one. Even the scriptures tell us that as well: Ecclesiastes 4:9 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.

When you are attempting to prepare or repair, it is always best to do it together. Marriages often fail simply for that reason alone. It is imperative to take on this life commitment together. Even when making important decisions concerning your welfare, both parties should be included. There should never be a dictatorship in marriage. It's not fare and besides; you are depriving your marriage of true growth. Your togetherness carries alone, an authority that you don't have as an individual. Want me to explain? My pleasure.
The mere fact that your marriage operates as one entity is an authority and a (testimony) to the world that you both have settled in your hearts and minds that your marriage flourishes because of your stand of oneness or togetherness. It also acts as a deterrent to outsiders and warns them not to try to interfere with this marriage union. That's pretty powerful, I'd say. Even in situations of indecision, two is without question better than one alone. It's sort of a parallel to your walk in Christ too! Psalm 133:1 Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! As you can see, just the act of working together provides the advantage of sharing and planning your life, and you're doing with someone you truly love. Amen! That alone is worth it all!
Here's the test: Start to plan and prepare your goals and aspirations in life for your marriage; and do it together. That's right, take the time to do it! Nothing ever turns out right without the proper planning, so take some time. You will find that you are building an un-penetrable future for your marriage, and that's what really makes it last. Get it? It will only happen, when you do it TOGETHER!
This is your day to be Blessed!



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be not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. . .Ephesians 5:17