Take Five. . . .

Marriage is sometimes tedious with it's constant responsibilities and every day schedules; and at times it gets a little overwhelming.

That's why in today's segment we will try to lighten that burden a little with a suggestion of "Take Five".

Take five, derives from an old expression which actually means to relax or take a break from the everyday rat race.

Even after six days of miraculous creation, the Lord took a rest. Genesis 2:2 And on the seventh day God ended his work which he had made; and he rested on the seventh day from all his work which he had made.
What's important here is that sometimes you need balance in your life and especially in your marriage relationships. With the day to day responsibilities of homes, children, work, church, and all of the other outside activities you include in you life styles, you still need to "take five".

King Solomon puts it this way: Ecclesiastes 2:24 There is nothing better for a man, than that he should eat and drink, and that he should make his soul enjoy good in his labour. This also I saw, that it was from the hand of God; while Paul in the book of Romans explains it this way: Romans 14:22 Hast thou faith? have it to thyself before God. Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth.

In other words, it's alright to "take five", or take some time for your self. You need a break!

Now of course here's the key for the marriages. Whatever you decide or whenever you have decided to "take five", Take it together! How very important that is.

Finding that enjoyable moment together is the mystery of "oneness" and it is the bond that keeps your marriage relationships healthy. The relief of taking five is many times the solution to depression, anxiety, boredom, and many other negative moods that can cause friction and discontent in a marriage relationship.

Don't allow religious fanatics to tell you that you can't have fun. It's not scriptural and God never said it. Examine the scriptures for your self, and you'll find that it is God's will for you to be happy, healthy, provided for, and to prosper.
3 John 1:2 Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

Having a little fun does not take away from your relationship with God! It helps to give you a clear and sober mindset to understand the balance of life, both in heaven and on earth.

So when you're feeling a little pressured, maybe it's time to "take five". Your marriage will sparkle!

God Bless you and keep you today, and as always. . . . . remember:

You are Blessed!

What Do You Do? ? ?

A very interesting topic today, simply because it deals with situations that are very rarely discussed accross the sacred desk.

In today's segment, we will attempt to offer solutions for these "unmentionables".

Many times, those of us who are or have been in some type of authoritative position, such as Pastors, Evangelist, Bishops, Elders, Deacons, and just in general, those that are constantly visible to the public; have at one time or another had issues in our relationships that we dare not make public. In most cases, it's because we fear loosing the confidence and respect of the lay people that look up to us. In other words, the folks at the top have problems too! So. . . . . ."What do you do". . . . .when there is an issue with you? God forbid if we share it with another person in fear that the shocking news will leak out.

What do you do. . . . .when the leader has an infidelity problem. . . . .what do you do when lust seems to keep cropping up in the preacher. . . . .what do you do when the Evangelist's wife is unfaithful. . . . .what do you do when the Bishop has a gambling problem. . . . .what do you do. . . when the pastor just can't stop drinking. . . . . .what do you do when the Elder is sexually aroused by women other than his wife or vice-versa. . . . .WHAT DO YOU DO???

It's obvious that these are serious issues and have need of resolution.

Let's take a look into the scriptures. . . . Romans 7:23 But I see another law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity to the law of sin which is in my members.

In fact, this same attack has trickled down into the marriages of today and caused a great calamity. The fear of destroying your marriages but yet still living with these issues is serious.

Well my friends it's not over until God says it's over! This fierce attack in the "flesh" has always been present, and now has surfaced even more today. 1 John 2:16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. Galatians 5:17 For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. . . . . and it is Satan's desire to keep these things hidden or covered up as long as possible. Never think that God doesn't know and care that these things are happening to you!

Nevertheless, there is still GOOD NEWS. . . . . .in spite of the enemy. . . . . WE'VE GOT THE VICTORY! That's right, God will never allow you to be put in positions where there is no escape. . . . 1 Corinthians 10:13 There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it. Yes my dear readers. . . . . .your marriages are secure. . . . .Pastors, teachers, bishops, leaders,. . . . . God has made an escape for you!

You see, it's all in the Word of God and it is activated by your FAITH.

How bad do you want relief? It's simple. . . . .put your trust in the Almighty God who made the heavens and the earth. He has the power through His Word to change the course of events, to break the chains and fetters, and deliver you and to present you as pure Gold!

Hallelujah!

Let's all stand on God's word today. . . . .and really make a difference in our marriages and our lives.

FATHER, I PRAY FOR THE READERS OF THIS BLOG TODAY. THAT YOUR POWER AND YOUR ANOINTING WILL TRANSFORM FOR THESE WORDS TO THOSE THAT DESIRE CHANGE. HEAL . . .DELIVER . . . . AND SET FREE TODAY , YOUR PEOPLE IS MY PRAYER IN JESUS NAME. . . . . . AMEN!

Well my friends, I believe it and now it's time for you to receive it. God Bless , and always remember. . . . . .You Are Blessed

Money won't change me. . . or will it?

The late R&B singer and writer, James Brown wrote this song in the early 70's. . . . ."money won't change me". The real question today is . . . . .will money change you? What about your relationship and your marriage?

In today's segment,we'll look at a couple of scriptures that just might give us some insight on this "money" issue:

Ecclesiastes 10:19 A feast is made for laughter, and wine maketh merry: but money answereth all things. On the other hand: 1 Timothy 6:10 For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

Now here we have two scriptures; both from the Holy Bible which we declare that the Word of God to be the "final authority" yet they are almost contradictory in meaning. Why? . . . and how do each of these passages relate to our marriages? I'm glad you asked!

Even in biblical days, the economic trading practice used "money" to do business. The wisdom of King Solomon in his observation of life, saw then, even as it is now, that the pressures and challenges of life were lessened and often eliminated where there was "money"; so he wrote thus: "money answered all things". However, in reading the entire chapter, he was only referring to things that were related to money, not things such as happiness, love, contentment, peace, and etc., where money is not a factor.

In the New Testament however, while Timothy also observed life's pressures and challenges, noted that just the "love of money" ( not just money) but the love of money became the root of all evil. I'm sure you've read in the newspaper the awful things people have done, even down to lying, betrayal, cheating, cover ups, and they even have gone as far as murder, just because of "money". Now if you think that's not evil, you are mistaken.

Here we are addressed with the issue of "motive".

As you know in today's society, "the mighty dollar rules"., or so we have been led to believe. So how does all this fit into the marriage world?

Good question! Marriage is an institution set and established on standards and principles to include motives. (very important).

Many times as well as many marriages only survive because of "money factor"; and many marriages as well are destroyed because of the lack of "money". Scary isn't it, but it's a fact. Money does seem to change people and marriage relationships. So where do we draw the line? The line is drawn at inception. Meaning, if your motive is wrong at the beginning, nine times out of ten, the money will be the deciding factor and will determine the rise or fall of your marriage; more falls than rise. It's ugly, but it's fact.

If status quo and $$$$ signs are the only reason for your marriage union, then you have lost already, and will eventually end up in divorce. Not an opinion, a statistic!

Please don't misunderstand me here; Yes you do need money to live, but it should not be a prerequisite for marriage, trust me, you need much more than that! Forgive me for being vivid, but how much money will it take to blot out the unfaithfulness of a spouse. . . . .or how much money will substitute the passions of a marriage? You see, my dear friends, money in it's proper perspective is great, but it does not meet certain criteria.

The "oneness" that God speaks about in the Holy scriptures can not be obtained with money! Even with money, comes an authority, and authority without discipline is chaos!

What's the message here: Will money change you. . . . has it changed you. . . .do you have money, or does money have you? I hope you are getting the picture here.

Our love should emulate from the heart for each other, (husband and wife) , our peace should come from God, ( as a result of our acceptance of His law), and our money should pave the way to our welfare, ( and not used as a gambling chip to manipulate a marriage).

"Money won't change you"? . . . . now that's a question you must answer!

Have some fun today. . . . . .and remember. . . . . .You are Blessed!

Where do we go from here. . . .

Often in our venture in married life we reach crossroads of decisions. The directions we choose will determine our destination, or destiny if you will.
In today's segment, we discuss those directions.
Psalm 97:6 The heavens declare his righteousness, and all the people see his glory. . . . and
Matthew 5:14 Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. So what's the point here?
The marriage institution is a very visible entity, meaning that it is seen by others and is characterized based on the direction you have chosen. Wow! . . . .what a mouth full.
More specifically, the life-style you choose as a marriage union; is actually a mirror for God's plan for man-kind.
Of course you say how. Simply because God's plan for us is to be united as one and with Him. Which direction have you chosen to take. Is it a path for God to get the glory out of your marriage? Psalm 37:23 The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD: and he delighteth in his way.
As you can see, the Lord delights in the marriage that is willing to be led or follow the path of righteousness through the instruction of His Holy word.
Someone may say, "well I'm not religious". . . that's OK. Once you have taken on the bond of matrimony, you have taken on a religious act. When you therefore take on a religious act, you follow the standards associated with that act. Don't you see, marriage is an institution set up by God, not man. It is an ordained intervention of God. That's why the direction you choose is so important.
Don't fool yourselves my dear friends, marriage is ordained of God! It is the example of God's plan for mankind; being reconciled as "one". The direction you take determines that outcome of destination.
God has chosen "marriage" as the blueprint for union: Ephesians 4:13 Till we all come in the unity of the faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the stature of the fulness of Christ: .Sounds like an awesome task, well, it's not. The mere joy of marriage simplifies it. You see, marriage exemplifies love, joy, peace, gentleness, kindness, meekness, and all the other pleasant things associate with life; which is why it is so important to choose the right mate when marring. In addition, and whats so amazing about marriage, it is synonymous with "God's plan of Salvation". Hear the fruits of the Spirit. . . . . Galatians 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, . . . . you see! (they all mirror the fruits of marriage). Thus. . . .the direction you take is important.
Will you choose God's direction today for your marriages? It will yield the peaceable fruits of righteousness and deliver your soul, mind, and body.
Take a step in the right direction, choose God's word as your map to success for your marriage. It will be a blessing as well as all that come in contact with you!
Have a wonderful day and always remember. . . . .You are Blessed!

Fellowship

Today's topic deals with our responsibilities of service as it relates to being married or having a family.

That responsibility of course is called having fellowship!
It is and has been in the past decade, a missing element in the lives of families or just everyday married couples.
The scriptures instruct us in our walk with God, that our fellowship is with the Father and with the Son. Our commitment however as saints of God, is first to have fellowship with the Father and then with one with another in the body of Christ. Having said that, I take you to the Holy scriptures: 1 John 1:3 That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ. Further:
1 John 1:7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.
Of course it is very clear and certain, that our fellowship with God and our fellow brethren is so very vital to our walk with God; as it is as important in a marital relationship. Fellowship is a must! Fellowship is a matter of the heart!
Naturally one will ask, what do you mean by "fellowship". Simply this: in order to build and sustain your relationship you must take the time to interact with your spouse, in conversations, in prayer, in activities, in passionate moments, as well as in partnership. You see, it's always the little things that appear insignificant, but are the elements that hold the keys to your success or failure in your marriages. James 3:4 Behold also the ships, which though they be so great, and are driven of fierce winds, yet are they turned about with a very small helm, whithersoever the governor listeth; so as you can see, even little things can make big differences, you know. . . . .things that we take for granted, things that we overlook. . . . like fellowship!
( Just being together physically does not constitute fellowship. . . . . .there must be an intentional interaction!)
The mere fact that you are even able to fellowship with one another lets you know that you are on the right path. Here's why. . . .2 Corinthians 6:14 (Whole Chapter) Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? . . . and two opposing forces always brings conflict. Conflict is just the opposite of fellowship! Remember that!
I suppose my message today is really about developing a commune, if you will with your mate. If we cannot have fellowship with our mate who we can see and touch every day, we probably will have great difficulty communing with God, who we can't see, if you get my point.
Again, here is my point: Fellowship is the key that locks the door to Satan's invasion. It in turn opens the door to receive God's provision and love. That's right, you see, fellowship is more significant than you realized.
Fellowship with your mate, it's what God's Love is all about, in fact, it's what Marriage God's Way is all about! . . . . .don't forget to fellowship!
Remember. . . . .You are Blessed!

Choosing the right Mate. . . God's way!

Typically, when it's time for couples to decide on marriage, we generally don't ask God. It's just a fact. However, believe it or not, God also has set a time for us to marry. Surprised? ...well don't be. In the book of Ecclesiastes; Chapter 3, it tells how God has set in order times. A time for everything under the sun.
Many will ask, so how do I pick my mate? Does all of a sudden a man or woman appears, and I fall in love and get married?...Ha! Ha!...Sorry, I do however wish it was that easy, nevertheless. . . . .The Holy Scriptures tell us in Matthew: 6:25 thru 33, that our heavenly Father knows what we have need of; and yes even a mate. We have been so accustom to making all our decisions based on our senses.....feeling , touching , tasting , hearing, and seeing. There is a principle that most couples never consider, and that is trusting in God. You may not believe it but you must trust God with all, or you don't trust Him at all, Marriage in particular. Just a simple principle could save you years of heartaches.
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not to thine own understanding....Proverbs: 3:5. You see it's not important to try and understand how God works. It just important for you to know that He knows how to work in your behalf. Verse 6 goes on to say : In all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths.
There is an inventory of mates that you don't even see! Praise God! The fact today is: God does care about the mate you pick. He cares who you marry because He alone only knows your future. Does it take faith? ....very little.
Have you ever gone shopping for a special item, and the salesperson says: "what you see is what we've got".disappointing isn't it?. . .it is the same when you don't look to God for your guidance. After all, isn't marriage a life-time affair.?
Contrary to popular belief, many marriages try to function on principles that are unfounded; or better still, not according to God's laws.
More so than not, a man or woman through Pride will say, no one can tell me how to live my life or how to spend my money etc. However, the scriptures tell us something completely different. In the book of Romans, chapter 13, Paul the apostle reveals to us that all men should be subject to the higher powers, and those powers come from God. Why is that so important you might say. Well, just like our laws on earth we are subject to, the same it is with the laws of God. In fact, the scripture goes on to say if we resist the law of God, we invite damnation into our destiny; so we really need to be selective when choosing our mates.
Here's the message: In the marriage function: What's yours is hers, what's hers is yours, you belong to her , she belongs to you. . .get the picture? You should consider those factors when choosing a mate! I Corinthians 7th chapter, tells us that even our bodies belong to each other. Why wouldn't everything else then belong to each other. Remember this: MARRIAGE IS NOT A BUSINESS!. it is the joining of two becoming one in the site of God and man; thus falling under the laws and guidelines of God.
It's amazing how so many marriages could be so much more fulfilling, if we only followed these simple principles.
Nothing should be separate when it comes to your marriage. Separate vacations , separate bank accounts, and on and on as though you were two total strangers.
I'm sure by now you're saying this is none of my business. YOU'RE RIGHT! .....but it is God's business. Take this tip: If you ever want to know if what you're doing is right or wrong, there are two sure ways to find out. #1. see if it corresponds with God's Word. and #2. look at the results of it. That will really tell how you chose, and it says a little something about you!
Take a second look now at your marriage, or your decision to get married . Is your motive filled with warmth and love unconditional? Or are you too busy separating "what's mine"? Now, take another look . . . . .you'll never be the same! Thank God you made the right choice!
Remember. . . . . .You are Blessed!

You take the high road. . .and I'll take the low road. . .

Now what's wrong with that picture?

Many marriages today have take that same mind set of: "you take the high road and I'll take the low road".

In today's segment, we will address this concept which is by the way, contrary to God's Word!

I need not remind you of the scripture: Ecclesiastes 4:9 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. It's so easy to just keep on living your life as though you were never married, but what does the Lord say about that! What you vowed at the altar says that you would be no more twain but "one flesh". Don't you realize that you are accountable for the words that come out of your mouth? It was "words" that actually shaped this universe, words that brought everything that is into existence. Jesus' words were spirit and life, and your words are life-changing as well. Proverbs 6:2 Thou art snared with the words of thy mouth, thou art taken with the words of thy mouth.

Even in today's fast pace society where both the husband and wife must pursue their lively hoods, there should still be a oneness of mind, body, and spirit between the two. The down-fall or the success of your marriage depends solely on the actions you take after the vow!

The strength and hope of your marriages hang on this one principle. . . . . oneness!

When you operate as separate entities, you are sending a message to each other that there is a lack of trust.

Get angry with me if you so choose, but the real fact is: you should have nothing that you cannot share with each other. No secrets, no special bank account, and especially no private agenda.

You are one in the site of God, and you should display that oneness among yourselves.

Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed? Now if the Word of God can clearly see this simple concept, why can't we?

Don't get me wrong, I do understand that having different schedules does make it rather difficult to sometimes physically be together, but it is not a substitute for oneness.

It is in this context that we write today, with the intent that we might destroy that leaven of Satan. Here's a little nugget for you: when you and your spouse practice to become inseparable in your marriage, not necessarily physically, but in mind and in heart, you have then destroyed a strategy of Satan.

Think about it as common sense. Any time you destroy an enemy, your forces become stronger! It in fact gives you some what of an advantage and allows you to better overthrow your enemy. Wow!! that is so powerful, I sure hope you can see that! At any rate, your success and victory for your marriages all rely upon your ability to work at becoming "one".

Jesus said: John 14:23 Jesus answered and said unto him, If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him. I say to you, if you really love each other, you will become one.

Well, why not chew on that today in your thoughts; while I'm praying that you'll have a wonderful and prosperous day. . . . and always remember. . . .

You are Blessed!

Putting God First in your Marriage!

Many times in our lives , and especially in our walk in marriage, we face unanswered questions about who we really are, or have we made the right decisions in our lives.

In today's segment, we will talk about these questions and see if we can direct our focus on God's solutions and answers, rather than our own.

Have you ever heard of situations where perhaps a friend, relative, or even yourself were on their way to a destination, but was delayed? Maybe they had forgotten a wallet or briefcase, or just forgot to lock the back door. In any case, they were held up for some reason and was not able to leave on time to get to their destination. Later that same day, they had heard of an accident which happened on the exact same highway route that that person would have taken, had they not been delayed; and after finding out the details of the accident, they noted that had they left at the time intended, it would have been them in that accident instead.

You may call it fate, luck, or coincidence, but the real fact of the matter is, it's really destiny! Psalm 37:23 The steps of a good man are ordered by the LORD: and he delighteth in his way. Remember this however; it you that destiny responds to based on your decisions. The decisions you make always dictate the consequences you face!

Trust this my dear readers, no matter how you classify or justify an incident in your life, it still boils down to a "plan and purpose" for your life. As it is in your marriages, a plan and a purpose has been mapped out for you. (According to God's Plan or Will). Again based on your decisions.

Putting God first in you life and marriage, gives you an advantage over most. Simply because it is a flawless plan that will ensure that you will reach the possibilities of your destiny. Most people think that the Bible is just a religious manual that allows you the freedom of religion through our constitution, not really knowing it's content; and sorry to inform you . . . . . what you don't know can hurt you!

We talk generally about the Bible not really realizing that it contains both the rules of life and death. Again, sorry to say, our marriages are hurting and suffer great pain and anguish because we don't have a clue to what has happened to our marriage relationships. Having therefore no guidelines to follow. It is the modern day habit. . . . .do whatever you think is best.Don't fool your selves, marriage is sacred and has a structure, not to be taken for granted, for it is an institution ordained of God.

When we put God first in our marriages, we take out the guess work of trying to figure out alternatives when things fall short of our expectations.

Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all; says the Holy scriptures, but there are rules and guidelines set up by God; but you must get them from God's Word, and there are no exceptions! It's rather simple if you look at it: first you read the manual, then you do the work! It doesn't get any plainer.
Ephesians 5:17 Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. As you can clearly see, it is God's will that you are not kept in the dark about anything concerning your destiny or your marriages. However only the wise will adhere to instruction! Proverbs 8:33 Hear instruction, and be wise, and refuse it not.

My message today my dear friends simply lets you know this: the Word of God is designed to challenge your life, but God never forces Himself on you, it is a choice that you must make. The unanswered questions in your life and marriages are really not unanswered. They are all outlined for you in the content of God's Holy Word, the Bible.

The real question today about you and your marriages is this: Are you putting God first in your Marriage? If not, it could very well be the reason for so many unanswered questions about you and your marriage.

Give it a try, you've got nothing to loose, and everything to gain (abundant life and your marriage). Confused? . . . .don't be, it's all written down for you, line upon line, precept upon precept, it's called. . . . . .the Bible!

Have a wonderful day today, and always remember . . . . . .You are Blessed!

It's so nice to be Loved!

Love. . . .the universal language of Marriage. That's right my dear readers, in today's segment we talk about Love!

Of course, we are all familiar with the word Love; but what about it's application! Let me explain. Love actually is the "catapult" of marriages.

The dictionary describes a catapult as a device to eject airplanes from a launching pad. Sort of a slingshot affect.

While serving time in the armed forces some years ago, I had the opportunity to work with catapults aboard an aircraft carrier during the Viet Nam war. I noticed that the catapults were used to eject the jet aircraft from our ship; and without the use of the catapult, the jets would fall into the ocean, not having enough thrust to keep it airborne; because of it's weight.

Much like our marriages today, without the injecting of Love, our marriage can't eject into it's state of fulfillment. You need that genuine Love between both parties in your marriages to get it off the ground. If you know what I mean.

Love is the greatest element in our marriages and we should always make sure that our love is "marriage-based driven". By that I mean our motives should be pure, honest, and sincere. After all, a heart is a terrible thing to just play with! Love must be kind and gentle, and easy to entreat to each other's needs and desires.

The Bible speaks of Love as "Charity". Listen to the scriptures: 1 Corinthians 13:8 Charity never faileth: 1 Corinthians 13:13 And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.

You see, Charity or (Love) is the greatest of all. It is the essence of your relationship and the "catapult" that takes it to higher levels.

As God's love is great and mighty toward us as humans, our love in our marriages should be as great!

Our message today is very short, but very very powerful. Do yourself a favor, take some time today to examine your love for your spouse. Do whatever necessary to re-kindle that passion of fire in your heart. Tell your husband or your wife just how much you appreciate them and love them. Love always produces the same results. . . . . .acceptance! Why. . . . . . .because. . . . . "it's so nice to be Loved".

Always remember: You are Blessed!

Jealousy. . . . the silent Killer!

The Bible describes jealousy like this: Song of Solomon 8:6 Set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death; jealousy is cruel as the grave: the coals thereof are coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame; and in today's segment, we address this silent marriage killer. JEALOUSY!

Often in our walk in married life there are attributes that show signs of deterioration of our relationships; Jealousy being one of them. It is always at the point of jealousy when the trust factor in our marriages begins to wither. Jealousy has no conscience or gender preference. It is an evil and a heart-felt mindset that comes strictly as a result of betrayal. Many times it is an orchastrated act from Satan. However, it is not specific to Satan. God Himself also has jealousy. Surprised? Don't be, it's true.

Deuteronomy 5:9 Thou shalt not bow down thyself unto them, nor serve them: for I the LORD thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me, so as you can see, even the Lord God possesses this characteristic.

Jealousy my dear friends usually results in a breach of trust, a trespassing if you will of ownership, an act of treachery against a covenant made.

Is is also the same in a marriage and is why it is known as a "silent killer" for marriages; especially when you don't see it coming.

When you have vowed to be true and have shown signs of interest to another, it will create a furious jealousy! Make no mistake, it can crop up in any humans life where there are signs of breach or distrust.

Just think about it; after you have put all your confidence in someone; it's like giving up a part of yourself to another person, (which is by the way, the general idea of the marriage union anyway), and then that other person betrays your trust with another. If it has never happen to you . . .God Bless You. . . .but to those of you who know exactly what I'm talking about, will understand that dishearten feeling of betrayal. It hurts. No question about it!

Now since we are made after the image of God, we all display the attributes of God, and this attribute is the feeling of Jealousy! It's not automatic, it only comes when a line is crossed, or a covenant broken, you know, a breach of contract so to speak! This is the very reason that God wants our marriages to become "one" , just like becoming one with God also "one" in marriage; they are synonymous.

Your marriage commitment to each other is the most important structure of your marriage relationship. It is the foundational ability to "trust" each other. Without it, there can be no oneness! In the same manor, God wants to be able to trust us in our walk with Him! It is that very reason that the Lord has fashioned the Church after a marriage:
Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; God has always been faithful, and therefore we should be as well.

To the Lord first, then to our spouses. It is the Golden Rule of Marriage: Be Thou Faithful!

Deuteronomy 7:9 Know therefore that the LORD thy God, he is God, the faithful God, which keepeth covenant and mercy with them that love him and keep his commandments to a thousand generations; so you see my dear readers, faithfulness is the key. . . . . jealousy kills; . . . . kills the love , the heart, the trust, and more importantly, the Marriage.

Jealousy is a silent killer! Don't let it be named among you. Love and cheerish each other, for it is the sweetness of marriage.

God has truly blessed mankind with this wondrous gift called "Marriage". If you will embrace it, it will cause your heart to rejoice!

Today, You are Blessed!

Starting from scratch. . . .the foundation!

Since "Rome wasn't build in a day", and neither will your marriage be; I have outlined in today's segment a very simple concept that we can apply to our marriages as though they never were.

Here's what I mean: " Starting from scratch"

Many times in our marriages we allow time to slip by so fast until we are well into our relationships and never really took the time to really get to know each other and plan for your married future. Then of course the current events of the time begins to demand our time and we are then caught up in the "events" of life.

So. . . . what really happens to us when a problem arises and one or the other or perhaps neither party is prepared; simply because we never started on the foundation of marriage!

One may ask, what exactly is the foundation of marriage? Is it the same for every marriage? Does every married couple have the same foundation? Interesting questions!

Well, first of all allow me to answer this way: Marriage is not a free-lance institution that has no structure as some have taken it to be. Just as God gave Adam specific instructions what to do and what not to do in the garden, we as married people have instructions also. After disobeying the Lord's instructions, Adam was forced to start from scratch for the second time,his life's journey with his wife Eve.

Obviously people are different, but think of it this way, if ten people are going to college or a school to pursue a certain profession, do they all not have to take the same tests. . . . and if they do not pass the final test, they just may have to " start from scratch". I hope you're getting my point here.

Subsequently in marriages, it is very similar. Sometimes we just have to "start from scratch." . . and take care of those import things like "communication".

Starting from scratch is not so bad when you consider that it involves the life-time commitment of you both; and since you're going to spend a very long time with each other, it just might be a rather refreshing idea.

Marriages fail simply because of a lack of foundational principles. Of course these principles are found in the God's Holy word. Nevertheless they are the foundation and assuring that your marriages won't fail.

Starting from scratch is the best option; even if you've been married for a while and have become so set in your ways that you think things will never change. I've got good news for you! It can change and it will change, but it starts with you! Listen to the scriptures: Luke 6:48 But he that heareth, and doeth not, is like a man that without a foundation built an house upon the earth; against which the stream did beat vehemently, and immediately it fell; and the ruin of that house was great.

My dear friends, why suffer lost when you don't have to? It's never too late! . . . .and the Lord guarantees it!

Luke 6:48 He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock. You see, so starting from scratch isn't such a bad idea after all. Trust me, your marriage is worth it.

The message today is simple . . . . .start from scratch. . . . . .build you marriage on the foundation of God's unchanging word. . . . . believe me. . . . . once you start from scratch, you'll never turn back. God Bless you today and your marriages.

Remember. . . . You are Blessed!

Grace for the Marriage . . . .

In today's segment, we talk about the spiritual part of marriage and it's allowances. Those allowances of course fall in category called "GRACE".

Grace actually is the unmerited favor of God. That's right, it is a benefit that we received and did not work for.

Often in our marriages, we encounter life's situations where our credentials just aren't good enough to handle the situation at hand. By that I mean our intellect, education, experience, etc. isn't sufficient or does not possess the ability to handle certain things that we sometimes are confronted with.

Nevertheless, it is at that moment that Grace kicks in to help us through our problems.

Throughout the Holy scriptures, men and women at some point in their life journey needed Grace to get them through a tough situation. Much like us today in our married lives. Just to show you a few; and there are many; however these are scriptures where grace was implemented in these cases:
Genesis 47:29 And the time drew nigh that Israel must die: and he called his son Joseph, and said unto him, If now I have found grace in thy sight, put, I pray thee, thy hand under my thigh, and deal kindly and truly with me; bury me not, I pray thee, in Egypt: You see, there will come times in your marriage experience where things happen that are just beyond our control!

Exodus 33:12 And Moses said unto the LORD, See, thou sayest unto me, Bring up this people: and thou hast not let me know whom thou wilt send with me. Yet thou hast said, I know thee by name, and thou hast also found grace in my sight.

As you can see, God already knows about our delimmas and our challenges. It is always His Grace that gives us the furtherance in these areas.

Titus 3:7 That being justified by his grace, we should be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life. In this particular scripture, we are being reminded that Grace is given to us because of our willingness to follow after righteousness; which is the real point I am getting to today.

Grace is necessary for your marriage, and it is something that we don't even qualify for. Yet it is because of God's love for us and his desire, ( and especially for the married) to become complete in Him!

Are you facing a difficult situation in your marriage now? Trust me, You Will Get through it , why? . . . .because of Grace, God's grace. 3 John 1:2 Beloved, I wish above all things that thou mayest prosper and be in health, even as thy soul prospereth.

It is the Grace that allows you to prosper, it is the Grace that keeps your health, and all because it is an unmerited access to the benefits of the Kingdom of Heaven, simply because you chose to take on the bond of Holy matrimony and walk in the statutes that the Lord has laid out in the Holy scriptures.

Now don't get confused, Grace is not a Natural thing, it's a spiritual thing, and whether or not we are believers, we are still given Grace. Grace to wake up in the mornings, grace to have health and strength , grace to be in our right minds, grace for provision, and most of all, grace to accomplish those things that you alone cannot.

My dear precious readers, by no means am I trying force some religious ideology on you. Remember this; you always have the right and will to do whatever you so choose; knowing this however; that you alone are responsible for your actions and only you face the consequences of your actions.

What I am trying to do however, is to give our marriages an option. That option is very simple. It is one of the keys to the enrichment of our marriage relationships; and that key is simply the acknowledgement of grace. Wow! That's it!

When you acknowledge God in your marriage, you have opened a door of favor by God. 1 John 2:23 Whosoever denieth the Son, the same hath not the Father: he that acknowledgeth the Son hath the Father also. Get my point?

It's Grace folks, and grace alone! May God truly bless your marriages today in hopes that you understand that it's Grace that has kept your marriage and will continue as long as you acknowledge Him.

Always remember: You are Blessed!

Love. . ."it's the REAL THING"

In our segment today, we explore the communication process that allows marriages to work; and of course, that process is call "LOVE". Love is the universal language of marriages!

Love however, is not just a word. It is a recurring action that continually provides the energy if you will, to ensure that your marriage doesn't "conk out". Much like a battery for your automobile.
At times the battery runs low, and need recharging. The exact same thing often happens in our marriages. The action portion of our love sometimes withers and we often think that it's over.
Well, I'm here to tell you that it's not over until God says that it's over! Psalm 85:6 Wilt thou not revive us again: that thy people may rejoice in thee? You see, even in our walk of life or in our relationship with the Lord, we have a tendency to grow weary and in our attempt to maintain our relationship with the Lord, we are sometimes slack. As it is in our marriage relationships, we grow slack.
Nevertheless, the Lord knows that we are human and need help maintaining our vows and commitments, which why He is there to sustain us!
2 Peter 3:9 The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
Now, if in our walk with Him, He has promised to provide the help we need to sustain our relationship with Him, how much more do you think He is going to provide the help we need in our marriages, ( an institution He has ordained).
The true fact is: we don't always know what to do when our marriage relationship seems to falter and grow weak; and many times we misinterpret these signs and react incorrectly. That's where the Word of God comes in to guide us and give us instruction.
The Word of God as the scripture outlines: 2 Timothy 3:16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
If you noticed the words correction and instruction, it is in this perspective that God wants us to turn to Him for those directions.
Our action of Love is the most essential part of our marriages; and although we encounter some hills and valleys in the course of our relationships, God through His Holy word has given us some alternatives that we can lay hold on to reinforce or even re-build our marriages; and it's all done through our acts of Love! Just remember God's definition and attribute as He defines Love:

1 Corinthians 13:1 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.
And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing. And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing. Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away. And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity. (Charity being interpreted as Love!)

Here's the message: the universal language of marriage can only be Love. It is marriages' beginning, it's operation, it's own repair, it's own healing, and it's rejuvenation. Real Love never has to be announced. It is clearly seen by it's action.
Use today in your marriage this universal tool of Love which is given to us by God. It is the "real thing".
. . . .and once again. . . . You are Blessed!

A Marriage Revival. . .

Isaiah 61:1 (Whole Chapter) The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me; because the LORD hath anointed me to preach good tidings unto the meek; he hath sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to them that are bound;

Yes my dear readers, it is time for a "Marriage Revival". A revival of restoration, healing, deliverance, love, compassion, and fellowship.

Invariably, when you think of revival, you think of the preaching of saving souls . Well, I believe that a marriage revival is just that; the saving of your marriage and your soul. In fact, when the married or the two coming together as one, we are actually doing what God says in His Holy Word, BECOMING ONE!. That's right . . . when we follow the outline for marriage God's way, we are saving our souls from destruction. That's how serious marriage is! When we falter on the holy vows of matrimony.

Be assured of this one thing: when you adapt to the teachings of the Holy scriptures and apply it to your marriages, you then fall under a different category than the world. Yes, a category that says: "I will be your God and ye shall be my people". . . . .Isaiah 59:19 So shall they fear the name of the LORD from the west, and his glory from the rising of the sun. When the enemy shall come in like a flood, the Spirit of the LORD shall lift up a standard against him.

You see, as the scriptures tell us: Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. . . and these are the things that causes emulations, divisions, separations, confusions, animosity, indifference, fears, disputes, and ultimately divorce; but through God's mighty power, we can launch a revival in our marriages that will over come all obstacles. Hallelujah!

My dear married friends, WE NEED A MARRIAGE REVIVAL! We need to rekindle that spark of love and passion in our relationships and lay aside our differences and engage!

Did you know that the very moment. . . . . that's right, the very moment you just turn to God for His help, that He's right there to provide you with the comfort and the solution and the healing necessary to revive your relationship! Why ?. . . . .because God always favors His word above all other things; and His word says: Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

I don't know about you, but I want to be counted among the honorable!

(in God's sight, that is)!

Like anything else, God also has principles and processes that we must go through in order to activate this revival. Listen to the scriptures: 2 Corinthians 5:18 And all things are of God, who hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus Christ, and hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation; so as you can see, the ability and power for revival lays within us!. . . . Matthew 5:24 Leave there thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift.

Sometimes we just need to confront one another in love, compassion, and forgiveness; that's where the true marriage revival starts. Will you consider that today?

Will you be reconciled and allow a marriage revival to emulate in your marriage relationship? It will Bless you and open a whole new door for your marriage. Then you will have this testimony; from an old Sunday School verse: THE LORD IS MY SHEPARD AND I SHALL NOT WANT. . . .because He has revived my Marriage. . . . . Amen!

Always remember . . . . . You are Blessed!

Marriage. . . .A Tree of Life !

As the Holy Bible describes the attributes or the benefits of living a God-fearing life it reads:
Proverbs 11:30 The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that winneth souls is wise. In today's segment, we relate these attributes to marriage.

From it's inception, marriage has always been looked upon by God as a part of a righteous plan.

Adam and Eve in the garden became the first married couple. Genesis 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. 21And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
22And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
23And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man
Genesis 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. . . .and because of this great intervention by God, the marriage union is formed and a righteous relationship before God and man.

Now notice in this scripture again, the benefit: Proverbs 11:30 The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; that's also your marriage. You see my dear friends, when we as marriages begin to realize the wondrous magnitude of our marriage union, and it's powerful affect in the world, we will begin to appreciate one another more. That's right, believe it or not, your marriage carries an authority, a power if you will, and it has affect on humanity. Sound mind boggling? . . . well it isn't. Why do think that there is so much disruption concerning marriages. Divorce, abuse, infidelity, same sex marriage, pre-nups, confusion, and the list goes on and on to throw the world off track, just so mankind does not see marriage in a clear perspective; in othere words, the way it was intended to be: by God!. Amazing eh? All this fuss with marriages by Satan to try to deminish the authority and influence that it carries. A trick of the enemy. Can't you see it?

I tell you now, so that it will incite your thinking; IT IS A DIRECT ATTACK OF SATAN!

That's why the churches now are so ineffective and weak; because the marriages are under attack. Weak marriages. . . . .weak church. Your marriage carrys a strength!

My dear friends, if you are married today, you must treasure your relationship! I encourage you to hold on, keep the faith, love your wife, love your husband, and thank God that you have been chosen to carry the true testimony of "oneness". It is God's plan, and out of it comes a "tree of life".

The tree of life is the continual growth and sustaining power that reproduces over and over. You see, life brings life. Your marriage as an entity alone is like a monument or a city set on top of a hill. It can't be hid, it stands out, it is a declaration to the humanity, that you two have become one through love, faith , commitment and covenant. YOUR MARRIAGE IS A TREE OF LIFE . . . HALLELUJAH!

Mark 3:27 No man can enter into a strong man's house, and spoil his goods, except he will first bind the strong man; and then he will spoil his house. . . .YOUR MARRIAGE PROVES THAT IT IS (THE STRONG MAN) AND CANNOT BE BOUND! . . .do you get it? That's why it's so important to cherish your marriage, it actually makes a statement to the world. Praise God!

Well I'm getting happy now so I'd better close. Your marriages can work, it can last, and it will last. You don't have to fall into the category of the masses. Stand up for your marriage and declare to the world: OUR MARRIAGE IS A TREE OF LIFE! . . . .AMEN!

May the Lord richly Bless you today and always remember:

You Are Blessed!

By Faith. . . .

Psalm 24:7 Lift up your heads, O ye gates; and be ye lift up, ye everlasting doors; and the King of glory shall come in. That's right my friends, the King of Glory will come into your marriages.

In today's marriage segment, we are highlighting a very important element in your marital walk. That element is called "Faith". Faith in God and faith for your marriages.

One may say well, how is it exercised? Simple, by standing firmly on the Word of God concerning every issue of your relationship. You see, only those who are wise will seek help for their situations; while others that are full of pride find no solutions. Listen to this scripture: Galatians 6:3 For if a man think himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceiveth himself. Let's face it, if knew all the answers of life, we wouldn't need God. Fortunately don't; instead, we have our precious Lord: Hebrews 4:15 For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin.

How awesome that is, to know that God knows and cares about our situations. Our marriages are not hopeless. We have been given choices. . . Praise God!

Now the Bible defines Faith like this: Hebrews 11:1 Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. . . .which simply means that if we lay hold on the instruction from the Holy scriptures, whether we can see it happening or not, it will yield the right results; thus giving us the confidence we need to know that whatever God says, He is able to bring it to pass! We need simply to believe Him and trust Him.

In other words. . . . . FAITH! That's all faith is. We don't have to understand it; we just have to believe it!

I'm sure there are those that say: "well, I can't believe things I don't understand". . . . here is my answer to that: when you can explain how a brown cow that eats green grass and produces white milk, or perhaps explain 85 degrees on Christmas and snow on Easter, or even why you have five fingers on each hand and not six.

My point is this: there will always be things that are not understood or explained; nevertheless they are just a part of life. Faith is a part of life too! If you utilize it correctly, it will benefit your life greatly.

Our marriages are in need of benefit and support; and that support comes from the instruction of God's word. However, it is only effective if we (through faith) pursue it!

Faith is the catapult for the progression in our marriages. Faith is the strength we need to endure those difficult situations. Faith is the blessed assurance that no matter how challenging we are able to persevere and come out victorious!

Why not grab hold of Faith today! In fact, why not make it one of the ingredients of your marriage relationship. You just may see something you've never seen before.

Faith . . . . . I use it everyday . . . . . you should too!

Always remember. . . . . .You are Blessed!

How Much Does Marriage Cost?

In today's segment, we look at the responsibilities, dedications, and commitments for our marriages. In fact, in all sincerity, true marriage will require of both parties. . . everything!

Allow me to explain. . . .the mere fact that Holy matrimony is the covenant between two individuals; and is the life long commitment to relinquish each other's self, both naturally and mentally is the ultimate price for this union. In God's eyesight, it is the completion of unity!

Most marriages today suffer the unfortunate disease of "lack of commitment". 1 Corinthians 7:3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. How important that is for our marriages to adopt that mindset.

With all of the outside forces, temptations, and challenges that marriages are confronted with on a daily basis, it wise and necessary to understand our roles as "no more twain but one".

The scriptures tell us regarding spiritual warfare to: Ephesians 6:11 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.

Likewise it is the same when we refer to marriages. We need to do everything necessary to ensure the health, happiness, and strength of our marriages against these forces and challenges of life.

Repeatedly I am asked, "how in the world did you stay married for 39 + years to the same woman"; my answer of course is as always, only by the goodness of God and His instructions through His Holy Word! Luke 14:28 (Whole Chapter) For which of you, intending to build a tower, sitteth not down first, and counteth the cost, whether he have sufficient to finish it?

In marriage, you must be determined and willing to give all of yourselves to each other and be willing to submit to the guidelines set forth under the marriage bond of faith. What is the marriage bond of faith? . . . .simply this: it is the belief that once you have decided to take on the bond of Holy matrimony in wedlock, then you have also determined or believed that "forever" this union will be your destiny for you both, before God and man! It's almost like a declaration, if you will.

How much does marriage cost? . . . .it cost your life time commitment and agreement and understanding that this marriage will last!

My dear readers, it not a secret or some mystical formula. It's a matter of choosing from the heart, mind and soul to follow the instructions of life and success, happiness, health and healing, deliverance, restoration, and fulfillment right out of the "Book of Life" the Holy Bible.

When you position your marriage under the parameters that I have just mentioned, you have paid the cost for Marriage God's Way!

If you have read this today, I know beyond a shadow of doubt, that: You are Blessed!

Priorities. . . .Priorities. . . .Priorities.

Priorities, priorities, priorities; are sometimes misappropriated when it pertains to our marriages!

Today's topic relates to those priorities. Exactly where do your priorities lay. Is it your job, your church, your children, your husband, your wife? Is it money, impressions, status, or are all these in no certain order!

In any event, our priorities are most important in the building of our marriages. Listen to this scripture: Matthew 6:21 For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also; and subsequently, where your heart is will determine your priorities.

Did you know that in marriages where there are children, the wife's priority should actually be to her husband first and not the children. Shocked? You should be. Many marriages wither because the right amount of attention isn't given to the husband. It actually makes a man feel that his authority or headship is of no value. Likewise men, "the game" should never be more important than your wife wanting a little attention. Women need to feel wanted! It's just a fact of life.

Marriages are strengthened by the involvement of the two parties. No one wants to feel that they are taken for granted, so taking time to prioritize that involvement is a vital part of your marriages. Proverbs 5:18 Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth. . . .even if it means re-prioritizing!

Historically, marriages were premised on the idea of spending more time with your mate; however, as time has evolved to a fast pace society, we have found ourselves with not enough time to interact. How sad! . . . .which now leads us to our priorities! What's more important, you should ask yourself! Especially in christian marriages where there are responsibilities of ministry. Well I hate to bust your bubbles, but your first ministry is your family, particularly your spouse. You see when you operate outside of the parimeters of the marriage bond' you are actually in error! Believe it or not, there are guidelines for marriages, and they are found within the context of the Holy scriptures. It may not set on you well, but it's the truth and a fact: Ephesians 5:17 Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is.

As it is done in so many marriages today, we err not really knowing what God has to say about our priorities! We hide behind some religious ideology that's not even scripturally sound and think that we are doing God's work. You are dead wrong! 2 Timothy 3:16 All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: and in case you didn't know it; prioritizing in marriage is a part of righteousness!

Absence doesn't make the heart grow fonder, that's just an old saying! Interaction makes the heart grow fonder! You need it, and it's important.

Marriage is not a business, and you shouldn't treat like one. Marriage is the ultimate parallel of God's plan of salvation for mankind. Becoming one with God is the purpose of the Gospel. Becoming one with your mate is the purpose of Marriage.

When you fail to prioritize the things that are important in your marriage, being: time for each other first, you handicap your ability to build a strong loving and holy relationship. After all, your marriage becomes a holy union, after you have put things in their proper perspective.

Take time to prioritize or re-prioritize if needed the things that are right for your relationship. You will have then obeyed the voice and instruction of the Holy scriptures as well as bringing joy, love, and fulfillment in this union called "Marriage"

God Bless you today and don't forget to Prioritize!

Always remember: You are Blessed

The Deception. . . Part II

As we look at today's society and it's horrible acts of murder, molestations, unnatural desires, and false ideologies, we sense that the world is getting worse. Well in fact, it is.

These are all signs of the deception of the enemy, the devil; and whether you face it or not, these acts are happening more frequently than ever. Call me a judgement preacher if you want, but it does not make these things go away!

In today's segment, if you allow me, I want to reconstruct your thinking through the Word of God to counter-act these deceptions of whoredoms!

In the book of : Ephesians 5:17 Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is. That is so very important. Recognizing a problem is one thing, but doing something about it is another.

Our marriages have been purposely attacked by the enemy for the simple reason that it causes havoc and confusion, unhappiness, heartbreak,and disapointment. Scripture. . . . . 1 Corinthians 14:33 For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. so clearly you can see that anything that brings confusion, does not come from God!

In fact, anything that brings separation, debate, resistance, calamity, turmoil, confrontation in your marriages has come from the enemy. You see, anything that is unnatural and becomes more prevalent than the thing that is natural is a sure sign that it has definitely come form Satan. It's like living "inside out". 2 Timothy 3:1 1This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. 2For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, 3Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, 4Traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; 5Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away. 6For of this sort are they which creep into houses, and lead captive silly women laden with sins, led away with divers lusts,
7Ever learning, and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.

My dear friends, these scriptures were written over 2000 years ago. The question is, how do we escape these things? . . . well to be honest, you can't, and you won't; however, you can counter-act them through God's Holy Word!

Mankind is no match for Satan!! You must defeat him with the power of the scriptures.That's right, God's Word is the only defense mechanism for Satan. Matthew 28:18 And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth; and without God's power in your life, your marriage will suffer!

Do you honestly think that divorce is natural? Think about that! Why on earth would you pick a mate to spend the "rest of your life" with and then divorce them? Why? Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children. Wow! I'd say that's pretty serious; and you are right, it is serious. Our marriages should be flourishing with joy, peace, and happiness and wealth, instead we are flooding the divorce courts. Something is wrong. There are just as many single mothers as there are married couples. Something is definitely wrong!

Don't get this wrong my dear readers, it has nothing to do with religion! It's all about going back to basics and doing what is right. ( in the eyesight of God, not man) Job 5:17 Behold, happy is the man whom God correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the Almighty. These are things that are not spoken across the sacred desk; so God has very strategically placed His messengers across the globe through, preachings, live services, books, blogs, media, and many other vehicles, to get this message out to marriages, and then to mankind. 1 Corinthians 2:5 That your faith should not stand in the wisdom of men, but in the power of God.

Now stop the devil's hype. . . . .nullify his deceptions. . . . reach out for God's help. It's all a matter of choice, Your choice! Bring Christ into your marriage! Your relationship will change forever!

Always remember: You are Blessed!