Slippin and Sliding. . .

"Slippin and Sliding" is actually an old slang used many years ago which denotes a person not sure about their relationship in marriage, so they take an alternate route called "slippin and sliding". As we go into today's session, we highlight this uncertain behavior.

Of course we know that there's quite a bit of slippin and sliding in marriages today. Unsure of where you stand in your relationship and not taking the responsibility of finding out. Shame on you!

Even the Holy scriptures tell us in the book of James 1:8 A double minded man is unstable in all his ways; so you see, it is important that we first know where we stand when it comes to our relationships concerning our marriages.

Many have taken the road to "slippin and sliding" simply because they don't feel and equal part in their marriage. As the old saying goes: birds of a feather, flock together. . . but that's not how God sees it. It's always that human instinct that tells a man or woman that they need to join with someone who thinks the way they think.; but what if your thinking is wrong? Certainly two wrongs still doesn't make things right.

There are far too many marriages today that end up in divorce simply because one or both parties now decide that neither are compatible. The truth of the matter is, it's a cop-out. Besides, how is it that you were compatible at the wedding ceremony and during the honeymoon and months later, possibly years, something changed. Now it's time to "slip and slide" to fulfill that part of your life that you feel is missing., and besides, slipin and sliding is so much easier. No long term commitment, no responsibilities, just one little Clause. . .just don't get caught!

I imagine by now you're wondering why such an attack on this behavior. Because it's not the way God would have you settle differences or inadequacies in your marriages. There is another way. Did you know that the same passion and enthusiasm that it takes to develop a relationship that ends up in marriage, is the same passion and enthusiasm necessary to maintain it? Having unresolved differences is not a license to slip and slide! Instead, having differences is the Workshop, if I may, for re-enforcing the bond of your marriage. Anything not worth working for is not worth having.

Before I close today, allow me to let you marriaged couples with unresolved differences in on a little secret., and it's not even from the Bible . . . .90% of the battle to work out your differences in your marriage henge's on this one thing. . . .the desire to correct it! Isn't that amazing? Everything else is academic. Hebrews 4:12 For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart. You've got it. . . .it's God's word that resolves these issues.!

So if you must "Slip and Slide. . . .slip into the Holy scriptures, ( that's where your answers lay) and slide back into your relationship. This time, you're gonna love it.!

You are so Blessed!

The Faith of a Marriage - Part II

In the previous segment, the saga of this true story continues of this married couple unwilling to relinquish their faith in an Almighty God, who promises to provide. . .Philippians 4:19 But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

Standing on not what they could see, but what they believed, the story continues. . . .

Needless to say the father once again instructed the children to go back to the corner store and get more cookies and perhaps even some candy. The two parents remained in their bedroom rejoicing. One more half hour transpired and once again the four children were back, this time dancing and rejoicing. You see they really never left the house. Instead they all played happily and contently in their living room. This time however, when the children presented what they had found ( in the house), they handed the parents (9) brand new $50.00 bills, totaling $450.00. Praise God! Halleluah! Yes, that's right, it was a miracle. The Lord had heard their cry and answered their call. It was their faith!

Of course the message is : Matthew 19:26 But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but with God all things are possible. Yes, the faith to take God at his word, for you, for your situation, for your family and finally, for your marriage.

Marriage God's Way is really the only real way to bring fulfilment and the kind of miraculous results that you have just read about. There are many things we can change and do for our marriages, and we should do them., but there are some things we cannot change and some things we just cannot do. That's where God steps in to complete the task. Victory belongs to the believer! Amen!

Now I guess you're wondering why I am so inspired to tell you this story, and why it is so urgent to stress to you the importance of having faith in God for your marriages. Well, simply because it works!. . .I know, because the father in that story was me! All the praises belong to God!

Always remember, you are Blessed!

The Faith of a Marriage - Part I

Today's segment is actually a true story about a married couple that kept their bond of love for each other even through the toughest times, and relied upon their immovable faith in God.

It all began one summer in the metropolitan city of Philadelphia. This man and wife along with four small children lived in a rented row house in a very poor neighborhood.

In those days, mothers actually stayed at home to raise the children, while the father worked sometimes two jobs to make sure that the family could eat. Only this particular summer was very different. The father lost his job and was not able to find work for three months. Obviously money had run out and they were getting desperate and was forced to seek for outside help. Unfortunately, family wasn't able to help and they had only acquaintances not friends.

Finally, their back was against the wall. They had no other alternative but to apply for public assistance.

To their surprise, a letter came to their door from the Assistance Office to inform them that they had been turned down for public assistance. With no where to turn, together, they stood their ground on the fact that their marriage was ordained by God and if in fact it was, they knew that God would never leave them , nor forsake them.. . . Hebrews 13:5 By the end of August, the 28th in fact, ( it was the father's birthday). They had completely run out of provision for the family and the only thing left was a bottle of water and one small box of macaroni.

The father then immediately called a family forum. He apologized to the children for not having any food to eat and showed them the one box of macaroni and said to his wife and children: " I still don't believe that God has forsaken us, so I refuse to charge God foolishly; so we will go to bed tonight hungry and eat our last box of macaroni tomorrow and then die. Of course with great confidence in their parents, the children ran off to play. The husband and wife retired to the bedroom and began to pray. The husband assured his wife that God sees our children and will not let them starve.

Approximately one half hour later, all four of the children came running and rejoicing saying: Look! look!. They had found 8 pennies. Immediately they all starting rejoicing as the husband declared: you see, God's not going to see the children go to bed hungry. The father then instructed the children to go to the corner store to purchase some cookies and divide them among themselves. Afterwards, the married couple remained in their bedroom rejoicing for the kids. Another half hour transpired, and suddenly the children came running and screaming. At first, the parents thought that one of the children had gotten hurt, only to find out that they had found more pennies, this time, even more, $0.11 cents. . . . . . .to be continued . . . . Be Blessed.

Love, Lust, and Lies. . .

1 John 2:16 For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world.

As you can see in today's segment, we deal with some very controversial issues. Love, lust, and lies, have always been entangled and misappropriated within the marriage bond. Like it on not, God has set a standard and a distinction between these factors.

Love has for centuries been confused with Lust, and Lies of course always is there to justify the two.Real love however, could never be confused with Lust or Lies. Lust is only temporary and is only satisfying for the moment, where on the other hand Love is sustaining and builds upon itself until it just grows stronger. Lust on one hand will also keep coming back, but has no particular partner. Whoever fills the need! Love is very specific. There is no uncertainty with Love. It really is unconditional.

Hear what the scriptures say: 1 Corinthians 13 1Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. Verses 4-8: 4Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up, 5Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; 6Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; 7Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. 8Charity never fails:

Lies is the deceitful part. Lies presents to mankind Lust and disguises it as Love. One might say, so how will we know the difference? That's easy; any marriage relationship based on the foundational principles of God will never be associated with any type of lust or lie. In fact, the Bible strictly forbids even the implication of lust: Romans :13:14 But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.

What's the message here, . . Marriage is a Holy act, and has no room for lust or lies. It is so important when taking on this life-long journey of Holy Matrimony, not to confuse these three elements. Need I say, now is a good time to examine our motives for our marriages. It will do one of two things: reveal the truth and expose a lie! See what is does for you! Search the scriptures for yourself. There you will find that there really is no room for all three. Love, Lust, and Lies in your marriage? Think about it, take your pick, which one would you really rather have in your marriage? You be the judge, because God has already judged., and His judgements are truth!

Be Blessed!

After the Thrill is Gone. . .

It is very likely in today’s segment, that some skeletons in our closets are revealed.
After the thrill is gone, and of course you’re wondering what thrill it is I’m referring to.
It is the thrill of marriage. Yes, it’s that thrill that kept you awake at nights, so in love and not being able to wait until daybreak for another opportunity to see, touch, converse with that special someone. You remember don’t you?

Then the ultimate day finally arrives. You make that lifetime decision: to get married.
Some may choose a couple of weeks to get away, while others choose a secluded place to wallow in passion. Don’t be ashamed, it’s natural and legal. (smiles). Even the Bible says:
Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
So you see, even the Lord knows that marriage is one of the most beautiful experiences in life, if of course it’s done with purpose and sincere intent.

The problem comes after the thrill is gone. Then what? Another life begins. Children, bills, responsibilities, work, and very little time for each other actually. Moods changes, conversation becomes a business meeting, schedules may conflict, and after all that, it’s the end of the day. Intimacy, what’s that. . . and finally the routine begins again, the next day.
After years pass, (hoping that it last that long) the mind wonders. The mind wonders if he or she is still loved or if they are still number one. No, it’s not a pretty picture I’m painting, however, it is a reality in some marriages. Sometimes all it takes is a little interest from an outside party and a war inside begins. A door now opens for temptation!

Now do you really think that The Lord intended for your marriage to end up in such a condition? Absolutely not! In fact the scriptures even tell us that: Hebrews 4:15 For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin. That’s right my dear readers, God cares about your marriage. He cares if you are hurting inside. He sees when you’re in despair, and He knows when situations cause you to feel helpless… .but there’s GOOD NEWS !
It is the perfect time for the Lord to take over. Yes, it’s that simple. You just need to invite Him in, that is, into your life and then into your marriage. It’s kind of a reality check.
Dear friend, you really don’t have to switch partners. That’s usually the “quick fix” for unhappy relationships today. What you really need is a marriage tune-up. Sounds funny….it’s not.

God can really tune up your marriage. The key is calling upon Him. Psalm 50:15 And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me.
Please, my friends, don’t give up because you think or feel that the thrill is gone out of your marriage. Call upon the Lord, He will make a difference, . . .in your life and in your marriage. After all, it’s what Marriage God's Way is all about., our marriages..

God Bless and keep you today!

Easier Said Then Done. . . Part II

In our previous segment, we were about to reveal an undeniable source that we desperately need to engage to better understand our struggles with marriages in today's society; so let's go right back into the message . . . .

Since our ancestors failed to teach us these biblical principles, and obviously our parents didn't either, Where does that teaching come from?
Let me explain. . .it comes From God's mouthpiece, the man or woman of God! That's right the good old fashion Preacher. . .Romans 10:14 How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?

Did you think that churches were established just so that men and women have a place to do their good deed for the week ,(only) by listening to an inspiring moral philosophy? Not so, my friends, it is a place set up and ordained by God to deliver, out of the Word of God, the message of instruction from our creator,God concerning our lives, and yes our marriages included. Amen.

The Word of God is designed to challenge your life.
Now whether or not you believe it and receive it, is completely up to you. 2 Timothy 3:16All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:
Let’s face it, we can only do what we know. What determines how your marriages will rise or fall is based strictly upon “what you know”; or better yet, knowing what to do and how to do it.

Therefore, my job, is to encourage you, to inspire you, to try and give you hope, with alternatives, because it is what God requires from me. Praise the Lord!. . . so I am humbled and honored to be able to share with you the married, and the unmarried, some valuable principles out of the Word of God, so that it will no longer be “Easier said than done” but rather comfortably done with confidence and assurance that God has designed the ultimate plan for your marriages. Just because He Loves you so!

My prayer today is that you are Blessed!

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Easier Said Then Done. . . Part I

Easier said than done. We say it, but rarely do we do it! In today's message, of course is about our journey called Marriage. A marriage sealed by a ceremony and a vow which says: "I Do". However; it's Easier said then Done!
That's right, just a simple phrase with one simple breath, we change the entire course of our lives. The easy to pronounce words of a marriage vow is effortless, yet in it we legally declare before God and man, that this is it! We vow to commit, to submit, to endure and ensure that at all cost, we will protect and provide for this is our bond of faith, love, desire, it is our marriage.Yet, after all of that . . .it's still easier said than done.

Now let's hear God's version: Ephesians 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; Ephesians 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. . . and to them both: Ephesians 5:21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.

Well, I guess that sums it all up. Our legal and natural vows says we'll do just that, and on the spiritual side, God's Word instructs us to do the same.

Here's the question: so why are we struggling so with our marriages ? Here's why. . .and this may shock you, but it is one of the leading flaws in marriage relationship today. Lack of teaching! I know, you're surprised, but it is a fact. We have never taken the time to examine the real meaning of marriage and what it's responsibilities require, nor what the repercussions it could cause by not entering into marriage with a pure intent. Wow!

You won't believe what this next scripture says: Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee, that thou shalt be no priest to me: seeing thou hast forgotten the law of thy God, I will also forget thy children. Now that is pretty astonishing! You see over thousands of years ago, the prophesies of this book were written for our learning today . Yes, even in 2007, we still need to be taught. . . .Well out of time. . . to be continued in the next segment!

Stay Blessed

The Proof is in the Pudding. . .

Hebrews 11:6 But without faith it is impossible to please him: for he that cometh to God must believe that he is, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him. . .says the scriptures, and marriage without Christ is the same.

In today's segment, one of the most important foundational truths is revealed. The truth about your marriages and how and why it will flourish and grow, or turn into a regrettable nightmare.

Yes, my dear readers, Marriage was originally designed to be a Holy thing, but mankind has changed it into a "weekend getaway".

One might ask, why do you call it a weekend getaway? Simply because weekend getaways are literally just for the weekend. In other words, TEMPORARY. We swap marriage partners like we trade automobiles; and without conscience.. We have no sense of commitment or dedication or reverence for the act of Holy Matrimony.
This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, Without natural affection, truce breakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, Traitors, heady, high minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; II Timothy 3:1-5.

Can't you see why it is so necessary to have Jesus Christ in our lives, especially when it comes our marriages. What will prevent you from caring out these traits mentioned above, and what will prevent you from reneging on your marriage vows. . . .I'll tell you . . . . .Christ in you, the Hope of Glory!
Then and only then will you be able to withstand the wyles of the enemy,( Satan). That's right, Satan, the devil. His job is to deceive you in thinking that you are able to handle your marriages without the help of a saviour. (Christ).
The promise of true happiness in your marriage is incumbent upon your ability and responsibility to develop a relationship with Christ. Then you will possess the ability to ensure your marriages work. It's true.
Even if one of the parties are not saved and does not belong to the Body of Christ, the one who is will acts as a covering for the other until such time that other party believes. (it 's Bible)

What's the real message here: Faith! It is the key that releases the Power of God through your life and marriage to fulfill your purpose. Religious or not, you need Christ
Put your marriage to the test today, examine the fruits of it, measure the happiness and contentment of it. Check for voids and productivity, then you'll know, "the proof is in the pudding". . . . and the truth is in the results.
Be Blessed. . . . because you need to be!

Money, Money,Money. . Mon-Nay !

Right away I'm sure you've recognized today's topic. MONEY! Yes money is a good thing. In fact, the Bible even says: but money answers all things. Ecclesiastes 10:19 ; so the truth of the matter is, money is good. However, the real question is: how will it affect our marriages, and will it destroy it or enhance it.

Some writers believe that it is the ultimate answer to every problem., but is it really?

This is a question you can ask yourself. Is our money being utilized according to God's design for our marriages, or has it severed the very foundation of your holy union by turning it into a monetary business partnership. Now that's an interesting question, wouldn't you think?

Keep in mind, that the Bible also says: For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows. I Timothy 6:10.

So many beautiful marriages have been utterly destroyed, just because of money. Yes, money. Money has corrupted many marriages because there was no regulation in their heart to know the difference. Hmmm! Some Marriages even have been reduced to Legal "Pre-nups" ( an arrangement designed by lawyers to protect one individual from "taking it all") Isn't that sad? What happen to the "no more twain, but One"? Where's the "til death due us part", how about the Life-time commitment! Other marriages have even been destroyed just because there was not enough money to sustain. Where did our Love go? Our attitudes change, our intimacy level drops, it has even stooped as low as to say: No Money . . .No Marriage; and Ultimately, divorce. How shameful!

Now you see why Marriage God's Way is so necessary? It's not just some religious philosophy, it's a way of life for your marriages, that is, if you adhere to the instruction and guidance of God's Holy Word. It will literally sustain your marriage, money or not. Yes, money is important. You need it to survive, to pay your bills, to provide yourselves with the finer things of life.; but if we love our money over and above our marriages, we sin.

Money appropriately managed is Great! It provides us with the necessary things to help reach our goals and dreams on our journey through marriage. IT IS NOT HOWEVER, A REPLACEMENT FOR MARRIAGE, it is only one component. Please be sure you understand that!

My prayer today is, that your marriages will have all the money you need, just make sure that you understand that money isn't everything you need!

Got Money? . . . You're Blessed. . . .Need Money?. . . .You're now in the perfect position to be Blessed. . . either way, You are Blessed!

The Whole Truth & Nothing but the Truth !

Genesis, chapter 2, verse 18: And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him; is actually today's marriage lesson. Of course you know the rest of the story how God made the woman (Eve) out of the rib of man (Adam).

You see, it was no accident that God ordained marriage. It was intentional and divinely planned. In fact, if you take a good look at the course of events, you will notice that once God took away Adam's rib, it created a void.(very important) and even today in 2007, that void still exists, unless of course you somehow find a replacement! Isn't that interesting! Even if you decide not to marry, a void must be filled to pacify, (not satisfy) what's missing in his/her life. Amazing!

Of course there are those that choose not to ever marry; but it does not eliminate that void. Subsequently, they try to find something to fill that spot. Isn't that unbelievable?

Nevertheless, the Divine plan of God is fulfilled through the act of Holy matrimony. It introduces mankind to God's nature. Now it gets a little deep right here; so pay close attention: . . . .ALL BECOMING ONE! is God's intention for man, to become one with Him! Listen to the scriptures. . .For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one. I John: 5:7.

There is a peace that passes all understanding, an unspeakable joy, and an everlasting contentment when you agree in one. Don't you see it. . . .that's a real marriage, when it produces those fruits. That's how you really can tell.

Praise the Lord for his Greatness and Wisdom and Power!

Now I've made myself happy, so I think I'll close with this: Marriage is not a coincidence, an accident, nor just an incident; it is God's Divine plan that provides the training in becoming One; so that you will then know how to become one with the Father. . . . .and that's the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth!

Today, you and I are both Blessed!

Not What. . .But Why !

In today's message, we discover the truths about our marriages and relationships. Let's face it, our marriages either work or they don't work, not because of the "what" but the "why".

Please let me explain: the what is real easy. It's just the act that we have performed.

However, the why on the other hand is much more difficult to pull off. It is in this context that we display before God and man, our real intent or motives for what we do. "for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart." says I Samuel 16:7. Believe it or not, the very life blood of our marriages hinges upon one thing, our motives.

Marriages are literally destroyed because people have gotten married for the wrong reasons ! It would benefit you very little to list reasons why people get married; and besides, it would only frustrate you and put me in a judgemental seat. That's not my place.

The message today is really about self examination. It tells the true story about you and how it can imprison you for the entire term of your marriage, or it can completely liberate you into a world of Love, Truth, and Happiness! Of course the choice is yours to make.

Why we do a certain thing is just as important as performing the act! Listen to this profound scripture: Romans, chapter 14, verse 22 reads: Happy is he that condemneth not himself in that thing which he alloweth. Wow. . . . . pretty powerful, wouldn't you say? You see, what God expects from our lives and our marriages is to first be honest. Then our possibilities can outweigh our realities! Confused? don't be.

Here's the point! Far too many couples jump into marriage without sitting down and counting up the cost. You've heard the expression: one bad apple ruins the entire bushel. Well, one wrong motive instantly annuls your marriage, that is, in the eyesight of God.; because real marriages flourish and bloom like a flower in May.That's the WHAT. . . .and the WHY. . . is because it was based on truth, honesty, and most of all Love!

Unfortunately, our society doesn't seem to produce those whats and true whys anymore.

Please my dear friends, Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. Galatians 6:7. . . .so to the married, you've already taken care of the What. . .it might not be a bad idea now to take another look at the Why. . . .after all, God does. It's never too late!

You've gotta be Blessed.

Everything that glitters is not Gold !

Educated in a little country town called Live Oak, Florida, and eventually graduating from high school in Philadelphia , Pa.; Traveling half way around the world, seeing great cities as Hong Kong, the Philippines, Japan, and ending up in Viet Nam, Not going to college until I was married some years later. I saw many great things, and some not so great. All this, before I even turned 20. I have found in that short time unto this day, that "everything that glitters, ain't gold".

The story begins today for the married as well as the unmarried, speaking to you about ideology. Some may say, why ideology? Simply because it deals with the mind and the heart. Is that so important? You can bet on it!

In the book, of Proverbs, chapter 23, verse 7, reads: for as a man thinketh, so is he., meaning you become exactly what you think. How you think determines also the choices you make. So what am I saying? We need an inside source,when making decisions for our marriages; and that source comes from above.

I Samuel 16:7 instructs us in this: for the LORD seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the LORD looketh on the heart. Are we making decisions for our marriages from the inside source, or are we so attracted by "THE GLITTER" It looks like gold, it feels like gold, and is shaped like gold, it must be gold. Wrong answer! One will say, how then can we know? Here's how, by allowing the instruction of God's word to penetrate your mind and heart , and also for those of you who are getting ready to choose a mate for marriage.

Well, Don't just take my word for it, examine it for yourself. As you search the Word of God for answers, you will find within the context of His mighty wisdom, answers that you never imagined about your life and your decisions are already outlined for you and for your marriage. Amazing isn't it. . . .it sure is, and it's also Life Changing!

Try it, you just might find out, that everything that glitters, really isn't gold. The Lord will know, but will you?

God Bless you and keep you.

Work from Home!

Sounds like an advertisement? Ha! Ha!. Trust me, it's not. Today's message deals with our every day activities and life styles, as we build our marriages. Working from home is actually the plan God has intended for your marriage to grow. Now what exactly do I mean by that?

In II Timothy, chapter 2, verse 6 says: The husbandman that labourers must be first partaker of the fruits. meaning, if you are to grow to the point of impacting other lives and marriages, if I may, the proof of success must first lay within you and practiced at home. Learning how to deal with each other's objectives on the inside is as equally important when dealing with others on the outside of your marriages.

Please permit me to explain: As the saying goes: charity begins at home, then spreads abroad. . . .is probably the best way to display this point. The attributes we display within our bond of marriages are relevant to our interaction with the outside world. Note: and these attributes are just not things we are born with. They must be instilled in us and must be taught through instruction.

Of course we will ask, where does that instruction come from:? You guess it. . . . .the Word of God!. . . .Matthew 4:4 . . . and man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God. These things come from the heart and then displayed through our individual personalities. Love, compassion, meekness, gentleness, kindness, charity, long suffering, joy, peace, and on and on. However, some may choose the other side of that coin, which is hate, envy, jealousy, debate, covetousness, lying, malice,cruelty, and others that ultimately will decay a man's soul and most certainly his or her marriage. Think that's strong". . .well it is, but it's also LIFE.

What's the point here . . .if your marriages will carry out it's purpose, according to God's perfect plan for life through Jesus Christ and through the profound teaching of His holy scriptures, it brings the fulfilment and quality of life God intended for your marriage, and so powerful, that it draws others into the same. Work from Home. Believe me, if your marriages cannot work from the home and in the home and for the home, surely it can never work for others! Get the idea? WORK FROM HOME. . . . .and lo I am with you always. . Matthew 28:20.

You see, your marriage does count. . . .in fact, the world is counting on it!

You are Blessed!

Which Way is UP. . . ?

In today's segment, we are dealing with a very important topic, time! Time in today's world seems to be the most sensitive issue in our married lives. What we obviously appear to have been given (by God) is time, but it seems as though we have locked our time into duties, schedules, and so many other things, that we have actually have lost time in our marriages, on the road to "up"

On our way up, as we would justify the time we spend, as being our time, appears to have omitted the importance of fellowship. Fellowship with our husbands and wives, fellowship with our children, and most important, the fellowship with our family. Funny isn't it, how time just slips away!

In the book of Ecclesiastes, chapter 3, speaks of "a time for everything". The key here however; is where and how we spend our time. Are we spending our time appropriately; is our jobs and education, and affiliations so important that we just don't have time for our marriages. Well, if that's the case, you're too busy!

When we overload our schedules so, that the fundamental things that are necessary to keep our marriages functioning are lacking, we reduce our marital relationships to just an arrangement, and it attacks the very integrity of our marriages. ( How important that is)

Romans, chapter 14, verse 16, says: Let not then your good be evil spoken of. ; so what the scriptures are saying is we sometimes create evil or (bad situations) thinking that we're doing something good. It's OK to move up in the world, get a higher education, a better job, even a better status.. . .but, NOT AT THE EXPENSE OF YOUR MARRIAGE !

Now that you're all mad at me, (smiles), allow me to end on a more positive note: In Matthew 6:33. the scripture eludes to the reality that . . . .your heavenly Father knows what you have need of, but seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added unto you.

So which way is up?. . . . .MARRIAGE GOD'S WAY!. . .take some TIME, check it out. . . .you'll be glad that you did.

Stay Blessed always.

Marriage is your Ministry

In today's segment, we are addressing the responsibilities of the two people who have joined to become one.

Yes, there are responsibilities that we have to each other as a married people. Our performance as it pertains to our day to day commitments and obligations solely depends on our willingness to, if you will, play by the rules, God's rules to be clear.

The Bible teaches us in II Timothy 4:5: to make full proof of our ministry. What does it mean and how is ministry related? I'm so glad you asked that question.

Today's society thrives on traditions and styles so, until we become creatures of parallel. By that I mean, we do what we see! What better way to set a trend, then by example! In fact, the way we interact with each other is the influence or the "testimony" you want others to see. Get my point? People are inspired by what they see.

Hear the scriptures: "Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven". Matthew 5:16. This is where your responsibility comes into play.

Allowing God's Word to impact your life so that it impacts your marriage, to impact the world, just by what they see! Starting to get the picture? It's your ministry! Alleluia!

That's right, YOUR MARRIAGE IS ACTUALLY A MINISTRY. Why do you think that God fashioned the Church after a marriage: Husbands love your wives, even as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for it. . . Ephesians 5:25., so that through you, your marriage that is, may impact or influence the world by seeing the application of Oneness! How can you become one with the heavenly Father when you can't even become one with one another? But God, through the marriage example shows us how.

Praise God for His wisdom and instruction!

My friends, today you have received one of God's revelations. . .the revelation of Evangelism., and by the way, it is the message for today! MARRIAGE IS YOUR MINISTRY!

Always be Blessed!

Can I Get a Witness. . .

For a man's life consisteth not in the abundance of the things which he possesseth: Luke 12:15; as outlined in the scriptures here.; and in today's segment, we talk about priorities and values, not just for marriages, but for every individual. How we value life is reflected in how we interact with others, especially our mates.

Commonly, in our society, we categorize others as well as ourselves according to "things that we own". By that , I mean what we feel we have accomplished and displayed to the world what we own. In short it means, if you have a lot, you're in the high class group. If you have a little, you're generally in the middle class group, and of course if you have very little to almost nothing, you're poor! And because of these guidelines, we interact with our fellowman., but unjustifiably!

It is the condition of the heart that really determines abundance!, not the tangible things that you own. Although in today's society, we are driven by possession, and have missed the mark when it pertains to our understanding of what God means by possession. It is the inner peace of God that makes a man rich! Even the scriptures tell us that it is the Lord that gives us the power to gain wealth. . .Deuteronomy 8:18.

So, what are we saying here: Today's message is really all about you! what you value will dictate the outcome of your destiny, even for your marriage. Let God's word impact your thinking. It will ultimately Aline all your values and thoughts. Then what you own will no longer be your possession, but rather your blessings.

"Today if ye will hear his voice, Harden not your hearts, as in the provocation, in the day of temptation in the wilderness. . Hebrews 3:7,8. Is God calling you!

The real question is will you answer? It's not what you have, it's who you are inside that really matters. Can I get a witness!

Have a Blessed day.

Marriage on the Rocks?

Typically, marriage of the rocks refers to a relationship dealing with an alcohol problem, and rightly so, if this is present in your situation. However, in today's segment, marriage on the rocks means a little more.

Allow me to explain. A rock alone is classified as a hard substance or thing. Rocks however, in our marriage relationship could mean that very thing, even a hard place.

Many times we allow our marriages to get to the point of "a hard place". By that I mean the things we allow to creep into our relationships that causes our oneness to become difficult to exist together. ( key word, together)Marriage on the rocks is the perfect example of those who have not applied God's principles to their marriage. Infidelity, lack of communication, lack of prayer, lack of time, procrastination, bad habits, neglect, and many many more things that cause our marriages to become almost unbearable.

Sad isn't it? When marriage is designed to be one of the heights of your life.

In the book James, chapter 4, 17th verse: Therefore, to him that knoweth to do good and doeth it not, to him, it is sin. One will say: why is that significant? Here's why: your future and the well-being, the growth, and happiness of your marriage solely depends on your decisions, to do the right thing. How do you know what the right thing is? It's all found written in a book. It's called the Bible. From Genesis to Revelation, it's all there. The issues of life, the instruction of life, the deliverance for a people, the salvation for the soul, and the choice of destiny. Wow!

Here's the thought: Take heed to yourselves. . . Deuteronomy 11:16.....do whatever it is that you think is for you, but remember, God shall bring every work into judgment, every secret thing, whether it be good, or whether it be evil. Ecclesiastes 12:14. So you be the judge. . . .is your marriage on the rocks? if it is, you can change it today. . . .if you listen to the voice of God! Every crooked path shall be made straight. . .Isaiah 40:4;. . . . . . and I know you're gonna be Blessed!

The Reason for the Season. . .

Commonly, this phrase: the reason for the season is used at Christmas time. Today it's not Christmas.

The season is the time that we live in .II Timothy 3:1 thru 5: This know also, that in the last days perilous time shall come. For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, truce breakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady high minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God. Having a form of Godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

This, unfortunately is the major cause of divorce, especially in the church. Hard to believe? Never! Statics have shown that the divorce rate is actually higher in the "church world". Our marriages have suffered great loses because we fail to take heed to the instruction that comes from above. It is God's plan, not man's.

The above caption from the book of Timothy outlines a mind set. That's right, it is the thought process that has entered into our hearts that defuses our marriages;. "as a man thinkest in his heart, so is he". . .Proverbs 23:7.

Religion won't help you, moral thinking won't help you, self help books won't help you, and even money won't change you.! It is the Heart that must be changed., and only God can change a man's heart.

You see, there are only two choices here: your way or God's way. There is no middle ground. Cut a tree at the bark, and it will grow again. Kill the root of the tree and it will never grow again. You see my point?

Today's message is: Beloved I wish above all that thou mayest prosper, be in health, even as thy soul prospereth. . .III John: 1:2. God's Holy Word. His Word is the only real reason for the season!

Today is your day to say "yes" to the Lord. . . . I promise, everything will change. Remember, your marriage can't change, until you change.

You are Blessed!

A Matter of Choice, not chance!

Today's segment deals with the choices we make in our marriages. After all, the choices we make dictate the consequences we face.

The Bible teaches us in Psalms 37:23: The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord. . . .which tells us up front that when decisions are to be made, our responsibility is to seek guidance from the Lord. Every decision we make in our marriages is vital and determines the success or failures we encounter.

Some of the examples are: choices on how we spend money, where we live, who are our associates, what we expose our children to, and many others. It's also important how we spend our time, whether together, separate, with family, at work, etc. Being a good Steward of your time, especially in a marriage, it vital.

It's not necessary to list the bad choices we make, because they can be easily identified by their results.

No one is born into this world with all the answers of life unfortunately, so it becomes necessary to first consult with each other, (so important), then to seek God's guidance when making these decisions.

One may say, "I think I'm doing OK without God's help. What a foolish gesture! It may be true that you're doing alright today! . . .but the truth of the matter is you're not always prepared for the unexpected!

Romans, chapter 12, verse 16 says: be not wise in your own conceits. What does that mean? Just this: never be so sure that the decisions you have made are the right ones. Always leave room for alternatives. The welfare of your marriage may depend on just that. The right word ( instruction) in due season (the proper time) how good it is. . .Proverbs 15:23. Everyone needs help sometimes!

So what's the point?. . . .Simply this: it is a matter of choice that our marriages function and grow. It is a matter of chance however that our marriages will function where there is no discipline. Remember, you have the authority to make any decision you so choose; but authority without discipline is chaos!

Success is a matter of choice!. . . . . .so don't take chances . . . .your marriage survives on your choices. Always be Blessed!

Mix and Match. . .is it God's Way?

Many marriages never materialize because of unfounded myths about "mixed marriages". Although it is safe to say that it may be proper and acceptable to abide by one's cultural differences.

In today's thought, we examine the Word of God regarding these differences. In the book of Romans, chapter 10, Paul the Apostle outlines how we are categorized when it pertains to the acceptance in the Kingdom of God or Body of Christ.

First, and foremost it reads in verse 12, For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over is rich unto all that call upon Him. (Very important) Although it is obvious that there are cultural differences nationality wise, God has not forbidden you to marry! He does say however, in one scripture: if eating meat offends my brother, I Corinthians 8:13. . .I will eat no flesh while the world stands. Pretty strong, wouldn't you say? Nevertheless, we as individuals should consider the courtesy of the same when we are to take the vowel of holy matrimony.

God's standard and requirement is to leave mother and father (roots) and cleave to each other to become ONE!; He doesn't say if you're yellow, black, white, green, or purple; or only if you are of the same race, creed or nationality, it's OK to marry.

It is with great sadness, this appeal of mankind has developed it's own rules and regulations when it pertains to interracial marriages. Yes, it is important to consider certain repercussions because of malices, hates, prejudices, racism, fears and etc.; but they are not the prerequisite for marriage!

Understandably so, these things create obstacles that you must face, God on the other hand classifies them as sin. This just might help you . . . .Fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul; but rather fear Him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell, Matthew 10:28.

You see, the message here really is: God always has the last say. . .and always keep in mind, that tradition and culture does not issue the authority for marriage, it's a God thing, accept it or not.

How we deal with life's issues is determined by our obedience and willingness to adhere to the highest authority.

God doesn't see mix or match,. . . . . He looks at the Heart!

Your day will be better now! Stay Blessed.

Save the Children

In today's segment, we are talking about the importance and impact children have in our marriages. In fact, Children play a very significant role in our Marriages. It's our gift from God and our mandate to train, build and cultivate our siblings.

The scriptures tells us: Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Proverbs :22:6. That's right, it is our responsibility to do the training!

Often marriages are disrupted because of our lack of understanding of this responsibility. The family life, if you will is a well of life, if it is cultivated correctly. Our children actually represent us. They are our products. Our marriages reflect the principles and ideals that form the character of our children. It is our responsibility passed down from God, to " save the children". After all what they see from us, is what they will eventually do because of us!

Here's the point: if we allow our marriages to grow through the instructional teaching of the Holy scriptures, and we teach our children the same, we have built a foundation, a platform if you will, for our children to walk in the same paths. Truth of the matter, we can't do that without God.

In the book of Joshua, chapter one, the Lord admonishes Joshua to be careful not to turn from the book of the law handed down through Moses. . . . .then thou shalt make thy way prosperous and then thou shalt have good success. Verse 8.That's so important. Your obedience to God's laws and instructions actually puts your marriage in right standing with God, and ultimately . . . saves the children. Wow! . . . . the benefits of Marriage God's Way!

Consider this . . . if you are willing (key word) to allow your marriage to be sustained through the instructional teaching of God's Holy Word, you have already "Saved the Children" !

Think about that.....let the Lord Bless your day, real good!

Understanding your mate!

In this segment, we will capture a most vital area in our marriage; the wheels if you will, that keep us moving forward. Understanding your mate. It may seem that we have known everything there is to know about our life partner, but it has been proven time after time the horrible results of not knowing everything there is to know about your mate. Shocking? Not in the least, it's a fact.

What are we saying here? . . . .Communication is the key. Thousands of divorces occur by reason of default due to some inconsistency or lack of communication between the two marriage partners. Knowing your mate is the bond that strengthens your relationship. Let's see what the Word of God says: I Corinthians 7:3: Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence and likewise also the wife unto the husband,. . .verse 5: defraud not one another! . . .you see how important communication plays a role in your marriage. It's a must!

What we don't know can hurt us, and not only one, but both parties. Sharing your feelings and emotions about each other is a part of God's plan for our marriages. When you discuss things that may have been hidden, you are actually bringing those things to light; and when something is brought to light, it's seen clearer and reveals any flaws. Get the picture?

Even Jesus pleaded with his audiences to . . .take my yoke upon you and learn of me. . . .Matthew 11:29. Make sure we are sensitive to each other's hurts, fears, and weaknesses. We all have them and it's imperative that these areas in our relationships are addressed. Here's a clue:

When you communicate in these sensitive areas, you actually empower yourselves as a team to defeat those things. That's right, you together create a bond of one that gives you the ability to overcome any obstacle that may arise in you marriage.

Two is better than one . . .says Ecclesiastes 4:9. Your communication destroys the hidden things that could surface later in your relationship and deceive and eventually destroy your marriage. It's no joke. Take this opportunity and get to really know your mate.

And with all thy getting, get understanding. . . .Proverbs 4:7. I just know you're going to be Blessed!

When the going gets tough!

Yea though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for thou art with me . . .says the Psalms 23:4 in today's message. Marriage many times has it's dark days and if I might add, even some days that you just don't even feel married.

It's true, there are days that come when you just feel alone! That's when it really seems like the going gets tough. It's natural, and it's reality. Nevertheless, there are solutions.

Allow me to share this little secret! In the book of Psalms, chapter 25, verse 14, reads: The secret of the Lord is with them that fear him; and He will show them His covenant. In other words, sometimes there are things that will come up in our marriages that we just don't have control over. It is precisely at that time God wants us to know that He is our source! Praise God! Your abilities, your talents, education, intellect and resources sometimes are just not enough to deal with life's curves. That's when we call upon a greater power, the power of God! You see, that's why marriage God's way is so important in our relationships. You are one step ahead of the game with the Lord on your side. Listen at the scriptures: with men, this is impossible, but with God, all things are possible! ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!

One will say, well how is this done? It's simple, it's all done by FAITH. You say that you don't have any? . . of course you do, the Bible says Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the Word of God!, Romans 10:17; so if you've been reading these timely messages each day, . . . .you've got Faith. Amazing isn't it! Well it's just that easy.

Start using your faith (in God) to begin attacking those situations where you feel helpless. I promise you, it works. So when the going gets tough, God gets tougher.. . .put your faith to work today for your marriage, you'll be glad that you read this little segment!

Be Blessed!

It's your Thing. . .do what you want to do?

Today's message deals with dwelling together, outside of the marriage bond. Yes, that's right, I'm referring to "Shacking". Shacking, is a modern day term for two people who supposedly love one another but not enough to make the life-time commitment called marriage. It's easy, it's convenient, and has many escape clauses. But!. . . it's against God's Law.
Consider what I say, and the Lord give thee understanding in all things. . .II Timothy 2:7; says the Apostle Paul as he speaks to the church that seeks for excellence. Excellence in our relationships as in the union of marriage is what God requires.
Just living together is not enough in the eyesight of God. Marriage requires a commitment.
You wouldn't walk into a supermarket and ask to take the groceries home to try them before you paid for them would you? Well it is the same in the marriage bond. Anything short of the plan that God has set forth is called " Fornication." .That's right, it's a sin!

Think about it, if the institution of marriage through the process of ceremony, license, blood test, and etc, has been adopted just about throughout the world, and is required by law in most states in this country, there's a very likely possibility that this tradition has been passed down from somewhere. . . . . .it has, . . . the Word of God!

Although the moral fiber of today's society has been reduced to just : doing what you want to do . . ., it does not negate the fact that God has the plan designed for those who will engage in an intimate relationship, called Marriage. Matthew 19 says that this is the only time when it is necessary for a man and woman to leave their family roots to embark on the journey of Holy Matrimony.

Consider this; we involve God to take on this vowel, ( a preacher, God's man or woman) but not when we divorce, ( it takes lawyers) . . .Hmm!. . .doesn't that tell you something? Things that are of God are eternal, but things that are of this earth are just temporal.! Food for thought? . . .you better believe it!

The message: " if you're shacking, . . . .you just might want to start packing". . . . .or maybe not, remember: you really only have to answer to God!
God loves you today!

The Split-Level Marriage

Very often, marriages are classified as "Split-Level Marriages". Of course you're going to say: what on earth is a split-level marriage.
Split-level marriages are those marriages that just exist on an agreement and not a commitment.. Kind of like: "you take the high road and I'll take the low road" agreement.
These marriages function basically with two individuals going in separate directions. The husband and wife take their own vacations and schedule events only around themselves and not with each other! Sad isn't it. What's even sadder, it's against God's principles of marriage.
It is diametrically opposed to the vowels of marriage and is the number one cause of divorce. I'm sure most people aren't aware of that statistic. It's true.
It is impossible for a marriage to function in those type scenarios, not to mention that it actually nullifies the marriage vowels you took. .Don't be deceived, you don't really have a marriage under those conditions. You just have a bed partner!

Let's see what the Holy scriptures tell us. In the book of Amos, chapter 3, verse 3 reads: Can two walk together except they be agreed. It is a law, a principle, and a commandment of God. Sorry, there's no way around it. You are destined for failure and ultimately divorce. If there are children involved, it is even more devastating, because you have destroyed the foundational upbringing of those siblings. Shame on you!

When Jesus prayed for his disciples in the book of St. John 17:21 He says: That they all may be one;. . .doesn't that strike your senses? The Bible speaks a lot about being one!
Split-level marriages just don't work! Besides, anything you split becomes two. Get the point? No longer two, but one. . .Matthew 19: 6. You see, you've got it backwards!

What is the message for your marriage? Come together as one, it will revolutionize your marriage and your life.. . . . .then you really will have a Blessed day!

Marriage of the Heart

In today's segment, we are talking about motives. Yes, motives! Our intent and motives have everything to do with the structure of our marriages. Listen at what the Bible says:

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it. . . says Jeremiah 18:9; so if the holy scriptures gives us this account of the reality of one's heart, it is imperative that we take a closer look at our real motives concerning our marriages.

When we enter into the bond of Holy Matrimony with motives that are not true and sincere, we jeopardize the welfare of the other party. Marring for money, pregnancies, to get out of the house, sex , and many others is not a good enough reason to take this life-long journey!

Although thousands of marriages exist just on those afore mentioned reasons alone, the results can be damaging and more important, irreversible! If your reason for marriage is not of the heart, you are actually deceiving the other individual. Further, in that same chapter of Jeremiah, tells us that it is the Lord who searches the heart and gives every person according to his/her ways. Jeremiah 17:10. That's gotta make you stop and think!

Nevertheless, with the right motives and intents, we enter into our marital relationships with the understanding that marriage is not a Philosophy, as some theologians would like for you to believe. It is the foundational way of life that God has ordained and set forth in His word for the man and woman who from the heart has committed themselves to each other in a life-time relationship, called marriage, and whether you accept it or not, it is God's way!

What's the message today? . . . .are you willing to take the chance of telling God he's wrong? . . . or will you take heed to the scriptures. It's really your choice. Motives of the heart, and self examination tells the real story. Is your marriage of the heart? Ask yourself! The Lord already knows!

God loves you! This is your day . . . Be Blessed!

Death, Burial, and Ressurection

Well, if you're thinking , what in the world does death, burial, and Resurrection have to do with marriage; or perhaps you might be saying: religion is alright, but how does this play a role in to the problems I face day to day in my marriage. Simply this! Contrary to what you may think, Marriage is a spiritual thing! Even from the beginning of time, marriage was designed actually to mirror the church. Don't be shocked, it's true.

The death, burial, and Resurrection of Christ was designed to re-instate mankind to his/her rightful place in God; this is called: "the church". Marriage as well, is a testimony to humanity to bring back to it's conciseness ( brotherhood).

Allow me explain: In the book of Genesis, chapter 11, the bible says that man wanted to build a tower to heaven, and at that time they all had only one language. The key word is One!., so the Lord said: let us go and confound their language, that they may not understand one another's speech: Genesis 11:7. Thus is the beginning of the various languages of the world. And the Lord scattered them over the face of the earth: Genesis 11:8. You see God never intended for us to really be a separate people. Now we see the different nationalities and cultures of this world. Nevertheless we are still all God's children.

So where does marriage fit into this puzzle? Through the word of God, we are taught that even though we are different in race, color, creed, and nationality, we are all of one body. (There's that word again, One!). In marriage, it's "no more twain (or two) but one!

Now here's the breakdown, death is symbolic to a man or woman dying to themselves to take on a partner,the burial is releasing of the ties of parents and lifestyle to take on another lifestyle called marriage. The resurrection is the outward confession ( the marriage ceremony) to the world and the declaration that you are the new person ( now Mr. & Mrs.) .Seems a bit complicated?, well it's not. In fact, unless this process takes place in our marriages from the beginning, we loose the ability to even deal with life's day to day events.,

So here's the message: make up in your mind that you want a loving , caring, productive, and prosperous marriage. . . .a real marriage. . .in fact a marriage God's Way! It'll change your thinking!

Always be Blessed!

Together we Stand

Today's segment deals with facing life's challenges as one. Over and over again, the Bible speaks of oneness. In the book of II John chapter 5, verse 7; reads: For there are three that bear record in heaven, the Father, the Word, and the Holy Ghost: and these three are one.

Interesting eh; and in our marriages the same union exist.. . .the husband, the wife, and the Spirit within you both. . . and these three are one! Wow. . .that's amazing!

I have just given you a key to one of the most powerful entities on the face of planet earth. " The Agreement of One". Sounds like and oxy-moron doesn't it? It's not! This is the empowerment that makes your marriage work. Three elements combined into One! Now you know the mystery of how God has set up the church. Surprised? I was too! .

The only real successful effective marriages in this world are those marriages that contains these three elements. It is a principle of the Holy Bible and God's requirement for our marriages to be effective.

Of course one will ask, why is it important for our marriage to be effective? We just want to live our lives happily together and not bother anyone else. Well, it doesn't quite work that way.

Your marriage and your individual lives both have purpose. That purpose is to impact another life, and if you will, another marriage. That's right we're all in this thing together!

In Matthews 5:16 says: Let your light so shine before men (that's so important) that they may see your good works, ( what works?) TOGETHER WE STAND!. . .and glorify your Father which is in heaven.

Get the idea? . . .your stand together is the testimony that the World needs to see. Some things need to be seen as well as heard. In fact it alone is a message from God! The proof is in the pudding. . . . .Now. . .Your marriage should never be the same after today! I decree it , I believe it, and I call it done by faith in Jesus' name. . .Amen!

Why all this. . .because, together we stand!

You Are Blessed!

Don't Let "the Jones" get you down!

In today's segment, the expression, "don't let the Jones get you down" is an instruction for marriages that struggle with pier pressure.
Yes, unfortunately, too many marriages suffer needlessly because of the pressures of societies life styles. If the "Jones" have a four bedroom house, you think that you should have one or else they'll think we're poor, even if you can afford it.

Many of our marital problems have stemmed from just looking at the wrong things. Our decisions regarding the welfare of our marriages sometimes distort our happiness. After all, our original plan is to be happy, and I might add, happy with the choices we have made is important.

The Bible teaches us in the book of Romans 14:22. . . happy is he that condemeth not himself in that thing which he allows. What we are saying here is, God has given every man/woman the ability to choose what's right and what's wrong. It's called our conscience. It is our responsibility in the marriage union to allow our inner ability to do the right thing.; and Keeping up with "The Jones" is not the way!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having "a little". In fact the scriptures when referring to righteousness, tells us that: . . . a little that a righteous man has is greater than all the riches of the wicked. . .Psalms 37:16.
Is is however important that as we build our lives and marriages so that we do not loose sight on what's really important. Remember, the decisions we make, also dictate the consequences we face! Am I saying that you should live poor and beggarly, absolutely not! However, I am saying that you should NEVER base your life and marriage decisions on what another person has., just for impression sake. Now that's foolish! Think about it. If Rome wasn't built in a day, why is it so important that you have everything today!

These are the things that destroy our marriages. What's the message here? Simply this.; God has given us the ability to labour for the things that we need and want. He has even given us the power to gain wealth. . says Deuteronomy 8:18. . . and it is up to us how we use that power!

Better to start small and end up big, than to try and "keep up with the Jones". So, don't let the Jones get you down!. . . .Get the idea? You should.....after all, your marriage depends on it!

STAY BLESSED!